Thursday, March 3, 2011
Overcoming Stress In Children Part III
Before your child is stressed, it would be nice if the parents are always trying to establish and maintain close relationship with the child in harmony, by doing the following things.
* Communicate with children actively in many ways is a great way to learn and understand many things about children. What he was feeling, what problems he faced, and what ideas he wanted to spend. Being an active questioner and listener and responship is key to communicate with your baby. Eat together, talk or spend time playing with him and with him working on tasks / homework, we can know and understand the changes in attitude or behavior of the child, and the development of our baby's condition. This is in addition to maintaining inner closeness and trust, can also become a habit of children to communicate emotional and intellectual experience of their parents. By ensuring a smooth communication with the child, the likelihood of children experiencing stress can be prevented
* Be open to children, by communicating the things in the family in proportion. New things in the family can cause stress in children, such as the birth of her sister or the presence of a new family member. It is important for parents to far-away days convey this to children, and mentally prepare children by giving understanding and insight that can make them accept the changes. Give children the opportunity to ask about this in accordance with his curiosity, so that parents can assess the extent of understanding and comprehension of children on this subject. By doing this, the possibility of children exposed to stress can be prevented.
* Do not burden the child with the problems faced by adults or the elderly. Give children an understanding of the purpose of family life, and ssesekali invite children to discuss about the difficulties faced by families with a friendly and fun attitude, and the way that children can understand.
* Do not burden the child with too many demands and excessive, for example, must always be the class champion, must excel in certain areas and should be number one in all respects, will only make it overwhelmed and depressed. They are not perfect, has a weakness, a lack which we must accept. Give it the freedom to find comfort in themselves and their activities. Do not be too excessive burden by requiring the child to follow a lot of activities such as tutoring or courses outside of school. Schools and learning materials in schools, and school work (PR) was already quite heavy and solid. If want to give lessons, provide in accordance with their interests and talents so that he feels comfortable and not feel forced. Assist and provide little opportunity to learn to manage their time well
To be Continue
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