Monday, February 28, 2011
Serving Child emotion
When someone is angry and upset, we often say "he's more emotion" or "no emotion so dong" or other similar sentences this. Actually, this kelimat not wrong. But it is also not true if the sentence is only associated with negative feelings. Emotion is a feeling of someone who is addressed to another person or against something.
When someone is feeling angry, upset and the like, this so-called negative emotions. But emotions can not only form of negative emotion, but also positive. When someone feel good at something, surprised by something, or moved against something is also called emotions. Differentiation of this type simply terms, it means when someone has negative emotions, it does not mean negative emotion is wrong. When a person experiences negative emotions, such a person is experiencing discomfort in his feelings and experiencing incompatibility with the feeling that should be desired.
Not only adults who have emotions, it turns out everyone has emotions, including a baby or child. Children's emotions were similar to adults, but the difference is the way they think. In addition, they also do not understand the difference between having feelings and express them to behave in order to control his emotions.
Children's emotions shown in a different way from adults. That is why parents should be responsive to children's emotions. Parents can consider what should be submitted to the baby by reading a few responses to children's emotions.
Almost all parents may receive when children experience positive emotions (happy, cheerful, happy, laughter, or the like), but not all parents receive when the child experienced negative emotions (crying, exacting, angry, resentful, sad or the like this) . Even some people tend to reject children's negative emotions.
Actually, this is very dangerous! If the child's negative emotions are ignored, let alone rejected, precisely these negative emotions will not come out in the soul of the child and eventually accumulate into negative energy in children. As a result, many children can not manage their emotions well. Especially when they experienced negative emotions. Instead trained to express his emotions with a fine, some kids do not understand is emotion what they were experiencing, due to often ignored and rejected. As the child upset, angry, some parents even scolded child behind!
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