Monday, February 28, 2011
Serving Child emotion
When someone is angry and upset, we often say "he's more emotion" or "no emotion so dong" or other similar sentences this. Actually, this kelimat not wrong. But it is also not true if the sentence is only associated with negative feelings. Emotion is a feeling of someone who is addressed to another person or against something.
When someone is feeling angry, upset and the like, this so-called negative emotions. But emotions can not only form of negative emotion, but also positive. When someone feel good at something, surprised by something, or moved against something is also called emotions. Differentiation of this type simply terms, it means when someone has negative emotions, it does not mean negative emotion is wrong. When a person experiences negative emotions, such a person is experiencing discomfort in his feelings and experiencing incompatibility with the feeling that should be desired.
Not only adults who have emotions, it turns out everyone has emotions, including a baby or child. Children's emotions were similar to adults, but the difference is the way they think. In addition, they also do not understand the difference between having feelings and express them to behave in order to control his emotions.
Children's emotions shown in a different way from adults. That is why parents should be responsive to children's emotions. Parents can consider what should be submitted to the baby by reading a few responses to children's emotions.
Almost all parents may receive when children experience positive emotions (happy, cheerful, happy, laughter, or the like), but not all parents receive when the child experienced negative emotions (crying, exacting, angry, resentful, sad or the like this) . Even some people tend to reject children's negative emotions.
Actually, this is very dangerous! If the child's negative emotions are ignored, let alone rejected, precisely these negative emotions will not come out in the soul of the child and eventually accumulate into negative energy in children. As a result, many children can not manage their emotions well. Especially when they experienced negative emotions. Instead trained to express his emotions with a fine, some kids do not understand is emotion what they were experiencing, due to often ignored and rejected. As the child upset, angry, some parents even scolded child behind!
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Understanding How Children Learn
When my first child was born, it also hit my confusion. After successfully adjust to the pattern in breast-feeding a baby, defecate, bathe, and sleep, all of a sudden I feel something is missing in our daily life.
However, those feelings gradually fade. I find much enlightenment after I started reading parenting books. The first book that inspired me a lot is a book published Kaifa Learning Revolution. Its contents are not specific about parenting, but the principles expressed its authors include also the education of children in general.
From the book's end I know that the baby was actually able to absorb all the information that we give even though they do not give a direct response. The baby turned out to hear and absorb the words he heard from the people or the sounds around him, but they can not directly say it again until the muscles are ready to do their talking.
Therefore, I often invite my baby chat on the sidelines of changing diapers, feeding, or bathing. People who do not understand, probably would say yes weird. But I believe that it will be useful for my baby. Evidently, the two children I do not have problems with speaking and relatively quickly mastered those skills with a clear articulation (not lisp) at the age of two years.
Little things are indeed seem trivial. But when we can understand that fact will impact the way we look on each child's behavior, including also in view of their learning.
Early childhood learning in distinctive ways, different from an adult perspective. If we are able to maintain enthusiasm in learning the baby's desire to learn it will continue to grow until they are big. No more we should be boasting get kids to learn, but they themselves who will learn and ask us to guide them.
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The uniqueness of children's emotions
Florence Littauer in his book Personality Plus for Parents to dissect the theory of the temperament of a Roman physiologist named Galen. According to Galen, there are 4 basic personality of man, namely: sanguine (Sanguinists), Choleric (Koleris), Melancholy (Melancholy), and Pleghmatic (Phlegmatis).
In order to more easily understand these four characters, the following picture described Litteaur::
Sanguinists Character
· Keep chattering
. Like looking for attention from people around them
· jovial
· Not regular
· emotional ups and downs
. forgetful
. get bored quickly
· Hypersensitivity to people about their assessment
Koleris Character
· Brave and enthusiastic
· Productive Workers
· Glad to organize friends in surrounding areas
· Trying to control other people and expect recognition for his achievements
· Like challenged
· fickle temperament
· Hard head
. argumentative
. manipulative
. not sensitive to others' feelings
Melancholy Character
· Thinking deep
· talented
. Perfectionist
. seriously
. morose
. too sensitive
. to avoid criticism
Pleghmatis Character
. observing others
. easily entertained
. can be relied upon
. easy to agree
. selfish
. like to tease
. coward
. sluggard
. silently stubborn
Reference : http://pendidikan-rumah.blogspot.com/2007/07/kepribadian-anak-kita-adalah.html
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Saturday, February 26, 2011
Forms of Child Education for Intelligence
This is the most basic education for children where you should be able to educate yourchild always to the right path. A small child not knowing the difference between right and wrong actions so you should tell her both with praise if it works well, or also a warning if it turns out it was an act is wrong. Remember you must have a commitment to do thisand do not even give a chance on the child to repeat the bad deeds.
Education Children to learn to be responsible
Education of children is a very influential one for your child later on, especially when nearadult. Yes, of course would be very annoying if you find that you are not your childrengrow up to be you who are lazy and often abandon their obligations like school? Wellyou should start since he was little like teaching him to clean the beds, tidying toys,brush their teeth until the greeting when out of the house.
Education Children to learn to save money
Can you believe this one child's education can make your child become a candidate forfuture employers? Every great entrepreneur must know the words to save only the difference when your child is learning to save small coins, while large employers savethe company assets worth billions of rupiah. Therefore you must teach this routine to your child.
Education Children to Play Computer Games
Maybe this is the education of children which is currently considered to be very fun forthe kids but a bit worrying for parents. If you know, games Computer games related tostrategy, and also can generate midbrain race baby who certainly will improve creativityand could even be a genius! You just give a time limit for them to play games and alsodo not forget to avoid your baby from the games that are themed especially sadisticviolence.
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